Jumping Jack

This is about "Mr. Jumping Jack ".. Nope he wasnt named so, 'cos of his dancing abilities but 'cos of his personality trait..

To most, he appeared as a very nice, fun guy, but those who knew him well, were acquinted with his jumping jack behaviour..
So presenting to you all, Mr.Jumping Jack, now on referred to as JJ..

JJ, as some people knew had this unique thing ...
He was a person who just couldnt settle for a single thing... He always wanted to have multiple things going around and he for sure liked to hop from thing on to another..

Nah, it was not about his multitasking ability but his mutli-option disorder..

There are some people who are of the "flip-flop" kind..
.Those who cant decide on one thing and keep wandering between the options..having many choices confuse them....
but our JJ wasnt a victim of many options.. instead he liked to have as many of them.. And never decided on one but liked to keep all of them open..

You ask him, if Black or White, and he would say, " Both !!..depending on his mood, he would go with either of them or maybe would find out a third option as well :) "

For him, the " rule of elimination " didnt exist, cos he followed the "rule of preservation "..

Friends often wondered why JJ didnot decide !!!
" Was it his inability of decision making or simply a state of unstable mind... ?? "

JJ detested having only one way.... He liked to have many ways... and loved hopping from one to another.. He changed the way not cos one proved to be better than the other, but cos he wanted to try all of them... and not rule out one ...
Jumping from one thing onto another had become his trait... sometimes in search of something and sometimes without any motive...

" Was it, in pursuit of something or simply in fear of a decision failing.....?? "
....no one knew !!

There came times when JJ was forced to make a decsion but he never obliged...

No one could believe him and no one could rely , but he continued to be the " jumping jack" that he was...

Hopping from one thing onto another ...
....sometimes in search of something and sometimes without any motive... !!

:-)

Mommy made food :-) and my favouritest "Rajma Chawal "

and all punjus' love it :D ....... Need i say more ;-)

cloud nine.....

Those clouds are angels' robes.--That fiery west Is paved with smiling faces.

- Charles Kingsley

" baadalon ke parbaton par koi baarish ka makaan hoga "
- o.s.t Rockford

“There are no rules of architecture for a castle in the clouds.”
-G. K. Chesterton

expect the unexpected ....

expect the unexpected - this is coming true more than ever before !!
seems like this is my period of getting flooded with surprises...some pleasant ones and some really horrid...

as things are unfolding and the events occuring.... all this seems to be more like a plan set up by someone... just to give me a taste of everything.. :-)
the plan, where every act is staged...every move is planned ..
and there i am, just a mere spectator...
sometimes i get the chance to respond and sometimes i don't :-)

well, i am of the kind who like to plan their own stuff.. to do things as per their convenience... take charge in their own hand...
but i guess there comes a time in each ones life when you just need to go with the flow..
you need to leave yourself at ease.. and enjoy the surprises which life blesses you with...:-)

so yours truly is all set to enjoy these surprises ....... :D ...bring them on ;-)

hmm...

failure is the best thing that can happen to you...
its upto your attitude how you take it... :-)

forgiveness...

Can all crimes be pardonable ?? All mistakes be forgiven ??

What should be called a 'crime' ??
- Something which has been entered in the law books or something which has impacted the victim badly ??
- A crime as grave as a murder or as sensitive as a breach of trust ??

Priyanka gandhi going and meeting her dads' assasin ...

She wasnt angry... She wasnt mad...
She was only wanting to know 'Why' !!
For she had already forgiven them..

How many of us can get onto that level ??
How many of us can forgive someone who wasnt good to us ??


Sometimes we trust someone so much that when the trust is broken we fall apart...
We question ourselves... try to figure out what went wrong...if it was our fault ??....
We try to find out if we make a mistake in judging people...
and this self questioning loop goes on and on ....

Most cases, we forget and even forgive the person...
but what happens ...
" when we arnt able to do either of it...???
cant forgive ....and we cant forget ...really cant :( "

I read in an article that,
' forgiveness is the best way to detach yourself from the wrongs going arnd.. once you
forgive someone, you free yourself from the pain..
and as for the person, well forgiveness is the best punishment for him..
He would be confused as to how easily he has been forgiven...
And if you dont forgive him and hold the grudge in your heart, it gives the person a
sense of delight that he is important.. '

After reading whole lot of stuff written on this, i thought mabbe its right..
mabbe we should learn to forgive and forget... I tried .. but i failed..:(

I couldnt really forgive the accused..

I know its still close to my heart and I often get reminded of this deceit...

I cant forget it...

It has taught me,
not to trust someone so blindly...
not to believe a lie...and not to deny the truth...
but it still hasnt taught me to forgive and forget .. :(

I hope someday I would too learn the profound art of forgiveness...