forgiveness...

Can all crimes be pardonable ?? All mistakes be forgiven ??

What should be called a 'crime' ??
- Something which has been entered in the law books or something which has impacted the victim badly ??
- A crime as grave as a murder or as sensitive as a breach of trust ??

Priyanka gandhi going and meeting her dads' assasin ...

She wasnt angry... She wasnt mad...
She was only wanting to know 'Why' !!
For she had already forgiven them..

How many of us can get onto that level ??
How many of us can forgive someone who wasnt good to us ??


Sometimes we trust someone so much that when the trust is broken we fall apart...
We question ourselves... try to figure out what went wrong...if it was our fault ??....
We try to find out if we make a mistake in judging people...
and this self questioning loop goes on and on ....

Most cases, we forget and even forgive the person...
but what happens ...
" when we arnt able to do either of it...???
cant forgive ....and we cant forget ...really cant :( "

I read in an article that,
' forgiveness is the best way to detach yourself from the wrongs going arnd.. once you
forgive someone, you free yourself from the pain..
and as for the person, well forgiveness is the best punishment for him..
He would be confused as to how easily he has been forgiven...
And if you dont forgive him and hold the grudge in your heart, it gives the person a
sense of delight that he is important.. '

After reading whole lot of stuff written on this, i thought mabbe its right..
mabbe we should learn to forgive and forget... I tried .. but i failed..:(

I couldnt really forgive the accused..

I know its still close to my heart and I often get reminded of this deceit...

I cant forget it...

It has taught me,
not to trust someone so blindly...
not to believe a lie...and not to deny the truth...
but it still hasnt taught me to forgive and forget .. :(

I hope someday I would too learn the profound art of forgiveness...